The Bank Teller

2007-09-05T18:27:00.000-07:00

Did you ever want to pick up the bank teller in the drive-through and had no idea on how to get her to notice you? This is one that I did for a really shallow reason but it worked so good that I had to tell everyone.

A little back story for you on this to see why it was as grand as it was for me. First off I just left my wife and was in a really low piont in my life. The friend that told me she was cheating on me, was the person I turned to right away trying to find myself again. We went out (me,her, her boyfriend, and a friend of hers from work). I really started to click with her friend and thanked them for the good time and left. I came to find out later that my friend was telling everyone that I wanted to sleep with her when what I really wanted was her friend.

So after talking to my best friend about what to do, we came up with this plan that worked really well. I went and bought a single rose, sounds really cheesy but listen. I cut the stem down to fit in a vacuum tube can and sent it with the note saying that I really wanted to get to know her better and to call if she wanted to go out. After an hour, I got the call saying that she gets off at 6 and we can meet at Starbucks for coffee(bad idea to go for coffee in the summer.). We talked for awhile and she gave me her number and told me to call her.

It was a little showy for me. I'm not the romantic type. I get in, get the number and get out. I really don't like this stuff because I feel it gives a sense that your always going to be that way. And the truth is none of us are. Something will come up and we forget what our goal was.

This worked for me because it started the questions in the work place. She went to her co-worker and asked if I did that for her. Well the answer was no because I never wanted to sleep with her, I just wanted to be friends. Thus discrediting her story, and now no one trust her. Revenge is sweet.

If the cause is worth your pride do whatever it takes. And keep your eye on the prize. It sounds cliche` but true.

New Beginning

2007-08-26T13:16:00.000-07:00

To start off on this adventure, let's talk about how this blog came about. I was at work talking to a female coworker about the strange things that happen to me when I'm out and about town. Most of what we talked about was how I talked to so many women and the "lines" I use to open it up.

She said that I should put a blog out to show, help and guide men and women in the Jungle we call the single scene. Allot of what is done is built on being confident in myself.

Lets start with what I did to get me started, and it was quite simple. I saw a beautiful woman at a gas station and I just told her that I thought she was good looking. That is the hardest thing I ever done. I went through all the questions that EVERYONE has. I just knew that if I was to meet anyone that was interesting, I had to do and not question.

I learned real quick that day that I was interesting. When that girl grabbed my arm to talk to me some more, ( because I said my piece and started to walk away) I had nothing to talk about. When we started to small talk, She said that what I did was bold. It showed that I wasn't afraid, when the whole conversation I felt like I was jumping out of my skin.

to shorten up the story, I did meet up with this woman one other time. she was a great person, but was a completely different world then me.

In the end, I learned that women love confidence. If you feel good about you, it will come naturally. At that point the world is at your feet. You can do anything you want.

So since this is my first post, please feel free to contact me and let me know what you think. If there is a topic you would like for me to talk about, ask. I'll do what I can.

Thank you for Reading.

What has worked for me

The Bank Teller

New Beginning